Telling toddlers to "be careful" can create fear without teaching them how to identify danger. It can hinder their development and willingness to explore. Instead, provide specific instructions or ask them to consider their safety. Saying "I'm leaving now" can make toddlers feel insecure, so try acknowledging their emotions and offering choices. Instead of saying "don't do that," tell them what they should do. Showering them with vague praise may not be effective, so learn how to give praise that encourages exploration and builds self-esteem.
- "Be careful" doesn't teach toddlers how to identify danger and can hinder their development.
- Encouraging manageable risks is vital for a toddler's development.
- Saying "I'm leaving now" can make toddlers feel insecure and anxious.
- Instead of scaring them into leaving, acknowledge their emotions and offer choices.
- Saying "don't do that" can encourage toddlers to do it more.
- Instead of focusing on what not to do, tell toddlers what they should do.
- Showering toddlers with vague praise may not be effective, so learn how to give praise that encourages exploration and builds self-esteem.
Key Insights
- Telling toddlers to "be careful" without providing specific instructions or explanations can create fear and hinder their development.
- Encouraging toddlers to take manageable risks is important for their motor, social, and cognitive development.
- Saying "I'm leaving now" without actually leaving can make toddlers feel insecure and anxious, eroding trust and creating fear of abandonment.
- Acknowledging toddlers' emotions and offering choices can make leaving less stressful and reinforce their trust in you.
- Instead of focusing on what not to do, telling toddlers what they should do provides clear instructions and reduces frustration.
- Showering toddlers with vague praise may not be effective in promoting exploration and building self-esteem. Specific and genuine praise is more beneficial.
- Understanding how our words and actions impact toddlers' development can help us guide them effectively and support their growth.
